Love should not be equated to one’s feeling alone. As the word implies, feeling is only temporary. So when you say you feel love – you may feel it now, you may not feel it later. What happens next? Love would just then be like a bubble, easily formed and easily bursts up after a short period of time.

1. Love Found, Love Lost?

You then find out that you are not alone after all – that others are in a similar situation as you are. Others consider it a love lost, while others consider it a wake up call to reconsider one’s priorities in life.

One should not give up though, and right away dismiss the present feeling and experience as a love gone sour. It is natural – that you will, at one point in your life, experience a feeling that leads you to question the present status of your relationship with your special someone.

It is thus advisable, that one should not be hasty in giving up on a love that you once treasured. Rather you should put it upon yourself, to hold on, and bring back to recollection your happy pasts, and the things both of you have gone through – both good and bad, which have become important milestones in your hand-to-hand journey through life.

You should then start to reassess the current situation you are in now – checking on the activities that consume most of your time. Doing so will make you realize the priorities you might have unconsciously put upon yourself, and after which, you can re-adjust to bring your relationship back to the right track. 

2. Relationship Counseling

You may also try relationship counseling – If you should feel the need, both of you may also consider asking for professional help. Doing so, both of you will discover what is happening in your relationship, and what both of you have to do to make it work.

Relationship counseling employs a scientific approach to knowing the problem in your relationship. The counselor will also be able to give both of you a professional advise on how to go about your problems.

Love should not be equated to one’s feeling alone. As the word implies, feeling is only temporary. So when you say you feel love – you may feel it now, you may not feel it later. What happens next? Love would just then be like a bubble, easily formed and easily bursts up after a short period of time.